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Still Using the Term “Difficult Customer”? Time for a shift in perspective!
- October 24, 2023
- Posted by: QIIN
- Category: Blog

Are Your Team Members Still Using the Term “Difficult Customer”?
Are you the customer being labeled as the difficult one? Obviously, it’s time for a change of perspective!
In the ever-evolving world of quality improvement and customer service, a significant part of this evolution is how we perceive and interact with our customers. The term “difficult customer” has been thrown around in countless meetings, blog posts, and training sessions, but it is time for a re-evaluation!
The Case Against the “Difficult Customer” Label
- Customer-centric mindset: Modern businesses are pivoting towards a model where the customer is the epicenter. By tagging a customer as “difficult,” there’s an inadvertent inclination to view the customer as the challenge. Shifting towards a genuine customer-centric approach means striving to comprehend their needs, pain points, and concerns without bias.
- Empathy and Understanding: Quality management isn’t just about product standards; it’s also about human connection. Empathy—the art of resonating with another’s feelings—is paramount. Immediately categorizing a customer as “difficult” impedes the flow of empathetic understanding, making genuine connection an uphill battle.
- Feedback is gold. Those interactions that test our patience often hide gems of insight. Instead of shunning a seemingly “difficult” customer, recognizing them as invaluable feedback channels can transform service quality, making it more aligned with actual customer needs.
- Unearthing Underlying Causes: What seems like a mere challenging interaction on the surface might be echoing deeper systemic issues, be it a persistent product flaw, service delivery gaps, or perhaps promises made during marketing that haven’t been met. Tackling these root issues not only pacifies the immediate concern but also elevates the overall service standard.
- Building Long-Term Relationships: A brand’s mettle is often tested in the heat of challenging customer interactions. Navigating these without resorting to blame games can pave the way for trust, converting a once disgruntled individual into a vocal brand advocate.
- Training and Skill Enhancement: Discarding the “difficult customer” stereotype allows for more constructive staff training. The focus shifts from merely managing “difficult personalities” to truly understanding customer needs, honing effective communication skills, and enhancing problem-solving capabilities.
- Psychological Impact: Psychologically, labels can dictate behavior. When a customer is pre-emptively stamped as “difficult,” it can subconsciously skew the service representative’s approach, possibly amplifying the discord in the interaction.
It’s high time we evolved our lexicon and mindset, especially in a field as dynamic as quality improvement and customer service. At the Quality Improvement Institute of Nigeria (QIIN), we’re championing this shift, advocating for a more empathetic, customer-centric approach that truly understands, values, and acts upon the gold mine that is customer feedback.
Discover more on redefining customer interactions and the essence of quality improvement and customer service in our eBook “Customer Experience Management”.